Today, I received a phone call from a nurse at the fertility specialist's office with a message from my doctor. Apparently, he wanted me to take the pill. ... Huh Yes, I would wait until my period, the pill quot; to the membranes of my uterus before procedimientoquot;, and then have the hysteroscopy before day 10 or 11 of my next cycle. That if it would lose another potential IUI cycle. I was beyond puzzled / frustrated / upset. I told the nurse that Dr. ____ ME said Wednesday he wanted to do the hysteroscopy as soon as possible so we could try next month. Why would say that !! She did not know. This standard procedure is, apparently, so he should have put my trust accordingly. But he did not. I can not tell you how frustrating it is hopeless. The last thing I want is to go BIRTH CONTROL when I'm trying to get pregnant! Sure, that might help you see my uterus best for this procedure, but this is not contrary to the ultimate goal that I PREGNANT !! Aaaaaaaaaaagggggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhh !!!!! I realized then it was time to put a call into the Clinic Manager to share my concern about the diversion has taken important my care and my concerns about Dr. _____ care.The continue to provide the Administrator of the Clinic a godsend. She sat in silence and listened as I shared with her my concerns about the way things went last week, from preparing my HSN failed on Wednesday to complete lack of communication about how we would turn this point. He expressed concern and rightly about the situation of iodine, and sympathized with me to frustrate the process of how he turned from the HSN. I said what I wanted. For Dr. ____ partner (head of the clinic) to review the sonogram of my HSN and give their opinion on whether hysteroscopy is really necessary. To find out if absolutely necessary to put under general anesthesia for hysteroscopy or could do quot; Twilightquot; sedation, as was done for my colonoscopy, where I wake up, but sinuous and felt no pain at all times. Or make an epidural analgesics and appropriate, as was done with my csection. I wanted to know what the actual timeline of events will be, from this point forward, and is compatible with the standard of care or not. And finally, I wanted to see if I could change doctors ____ Dr. Head of the Clinic. The clinic administrator assured me that would handle all that and get back to me, and apologized for the direction things had taken, as she wants all his patients feel good about the quality of care and experience with the clinic. I felt better just to have gotten all of my heart and know that someone would do something about it. Within an hour, the head doctor of the clinic called me to discuss my concerns. I was floored. We talked about his opinion of the outcome, HSN and the need for hysteroscopy (who agrees that it is most likely a fibroid in the uterine cavity as opposed to the uterine wall and it must be removed). We talked about my allergy to iodine and Dr. ____ error made by me on Wednesday preparing iodine and my concern for what might happen if the doctor has my ____ hysteroscopy and forget my allergy to iodine again. We talk about the actual timeline of what will happen in future, according to the standard of care. And ultimately, asked Dr. Head of the Clinic as a patient I put my mind at ease, because I simply felt more comfortable with him and his style of what I have come to feel with Dr. ____. She said yes. So this is what will happen next. I will schedule a preop appointment with Dr. Head of the Clinic for next week, so you can see me in person and we can go to all my questions about hysteroscopy. I'll wait until I get my period, then call your office to schedule the hysteroscopy. He will not put me on the pill, preferring not to. Making surgery between days 710 of my cycle, keep my uterine lining thin enough for him to see properly during hysteroscopy. I have hysteroscopy between days 710 of my next cycle in midOctober, quot; Twilightquot; sedation. If it is a fibroid, going to eliminate it. If only a distortion in the wall of my uterus, then nothing happens and the procedure is finished. Anyway, I still do not have IUI in October, that my uterus cure or removal of fibroids or simply by the trauma of hysteroscopy. Assuming that the healing goes as expected, I'll start my first IUI cycle after getting my period in early November. And hopefully I'll discover I'm pregnant in early December, just in time for the perfect Christmas gift. I know I can go that way, but here's hoping it does. Can I tell you how I feel much better knowing that I will be seeing Dr. Head of the Clinic from now I spoke by phone with the man twice already (it was the call when I called my abdominal pain / swelling at Monday night), and only in the space of those two telephone conversations I have a different wave of it. It takes time to explain things, to answer questions. he is not operating independently of me and my needs or feelings, and still able to set my expectations realistically. Yes, this means that definitely lose another potential IUI cycle in October, but explained why it is in my best interest. I think we will get much better and I feel much more comfortable in the hand that Dr. ___, in particular for hysteroscopy. Thus, while the train is moving again albeit more slowly than expected I think now is going in the right direction. And now I go for walks. The hope is back, baby! The hope is back. Yours always, SW br br
